Why is it that one of the most common questions for a married couple is “so when are you planning on having kids?”. I don’t know how many times I’ve been asked the question since marrying Mike, and I’ve always given the same exact response: eventually. A little over a year ago, “eventually” meant I haven’t decided, so somewhere in an unknown future…it’s taken on the new meaning now. I still say eventually, but now it means “when I get in for an IVF cycle, and it works”. Funny how things change. I’m thinking of making myself a t-shirt that says “don’t ask, we’re infertile”.