After about 12 weeks into my “pregnancy”, I am finally having my miscarriage. I was beginning to wonder if my body would be able to do it on its own.
I have to say that it was much more painful than I had expected. The doctor had led me to believe that it would be just a little worse than a period. That is such an understatement! I’ve known that it was coming for days now, because I started spotting this past weekend. I woke up at 12:45 this morning with some bad cramps, so I took some ibuprofen thinking that might help them. Silly me. The cramps went from bad to absolutely horrible! It’s nothing I have ever experienced before. Nothing helped. I tried laying down, sitting, curled up into a ball, walking, but they just kept getting worse. At this point, I was passing huge clots of blood. I googled to see if all this was normal, and others were comparing the cramps to labor pain…all I could think is if this is anything like labor, maybe I’m rethinking the whole natural birth thing.
After about two hours of this pain, I had started feeling very nauseous. I decided I couldn’t deal with both cramps and nausea, so I decided to make myself throw up, hoping that would make me feel just a little better. Well, every time I threw up, I felt a gushing of blood. I knew I had went right through my pathetic overnight pads I had bought. When I went to clean myself up, it was the most disgusting thing I had ever seen – the entire gestational sac had expelled itself during my retching episode (at least that what it looked like to me). But…I felt 10 times better. Apparently passing the gestational sac is the worst of it, and it was a stroke of luck that the pressure from throwing up helped push it out. My cramps immediately dissipated. I was actually able to go back to sleep! ….for 2 hours until I woke up in a blood soaked bed.
The blood is now just pouring out, and I can’t even go to bed because of the rate I’m going through my pads. I’ve ruined our sheets, multiple pairs of underwear, and a pair of sweatpants. I’ve gotten a horrible 4 hours of sleep, I still have to go to school today, and my poor husband who was up taking care of me the whole time has to go to work (he just started his new job yesterday). It’s just miserable. The only thing I can be thankful for is that this happened while I was at home, rather than when I was at school. I can honestly say I was not prepared for this. That’s what I get for not doing my own research and just going by what the doctor said.
Sorry if the detail was a little much, but I figured that other women out there may want those type of details. I know I would have found them useful so I could have been prepared. If anyone has any questions, feel free to ask.
**Update: The bleeding has subsided quite a bit. I think the worst of it has passed…at least I hope so. I’m feeling much better now, just very tired since I didn’t get much sleep last night. Thanks to those who commented. I appreciate your support.