Let’s see, where do I start? The whole experience actually went very well, and I have nothing to complain about. Everyone was so nice! When we first got to the hospital, I had to check in with pre-admissions for my surgery. They gave me clothes to put on (which were very comfortable), and we waited around for about an hour. A nurse called me back to take my vitals, then explained to me what the plan was for the day. Around 7:30, another nurse took a group of us down to IVF clinic. They put us all in separate rooms, where the doctors came by to explain the process again, tell me and Mike about the medications that I’ll be on, and to discuss when I’ll come back for transfer. After that, the anesthesiologist came in to give me some medications and hook me up to an IV. That was the first time I’d ever had an IV, and while it didn’t hurt anymore than any other needle, it was strange to have a tube running out of my arm.
Soon after I was hooked to the IV, I was taken back to the room for surgery where they started the anesthesia. Within about 2 minutes, I was out. The next thing I remember is them telling me that they had retrieved 24 eggs. I woke up once they rolled me down the NICU, and a really nice nurse sat with me for the next half hour. We had a really good conversation (I’m very talkative while under the influence of drugs 
), and the time passed by really fast. I didn’t have much pain at that point, just a little twinge in my lower abdomen. He told me that I wouldn’t remember anything from our conversation because of the drugs, but surprisingly I still do. I remember telling him at one point that I should become a nurse That would be an interesting profession change.
Once they felt like I was awake enough, they took me to phase II, which was back to pre-admissions where I started off. By that time, the pain had slightly increased, but nothing terrible. Before they’d let me leave, I had to pee, but it took me over an hour to do that! It was crazy. I would have thought I’d have no problem since I’d had an IV in me for 2 hours. I ended up drinking about 7 cups of water and an apple juice and finally was able to go enough for them to say we were released. I meant to ask them the reason, but I never got around to it.
It wasn’t until the drive home that I started feeling very nauseous, and I was feeling grateful that I had no food on my stomach. I’m sure Mike would not have appreciated me throwing up in his car. He’s been so wonderful today. He made me a sandwich for lunch, which was good because it was a light lunch. I’m not sure I could have held down anything heavier. And tonight he picked us up thai food and some of my favorite dessert, dark chocolate soy frozen yogurt
They gave me several medications, including antibiotics, steroids, and percocet for pain. I haven’t taken the percocet yet, but I’ll probably take it before bed so I don’t have any problems sleeping tonight. Maybe I’ll even take it before my progesterone in oil injection tonight.
Anyway, so they are supposed to call me tomorrow with the fertilization results and to let me know what time I should go in Monday morning for transfer. If the embryos make it to blastocyst, they’ll push it to Wednesday, but I won’t know until Monday when I go in. I’m really hoping that they make it to blastocyst, since they have a much better chance of implantation at that point. I’m anxious for the phone call tomorrow to hear how many eggs fertilize!
November 17, 2007 at 5:10 am
HI Holly,
i am in process for a cycle of ivf. I am terrified of the injections and side effects?i am told about by those who have been through it that the FSh hormones are so painful and they have horrible symptoms such as bloating, nausea, nervousness, dizziness sleeplessness? my God if freaks me out just to wirte them all.
I am particularly scared of the retreival. i know they say it’s quick and easy? but anesthesia is never easy even if it’s what they like to call “Conscious Sedation”….Did you feel horrible after your egg retrieval. I mean could you have gone to the office a few hours after your procedure? If you had to?
I never thought this would be such a horrifying experience. I have to admit i get so angry with fear at times that i’d like to beat the living daylights out of my Dr. for agreeing with all my fears i bring up to him. i know it’s not his fault but these Docs make 20,000 dollars a pop for each ivf cycle i would think part of their process would be to have counseling and consoling for the patient and spouse?
Anyway, good luck to you and i’ll post another soon if i can actually go through with it??? i am just on the BC pills to give my ovaries a rest supposedly and will probably start the injections on November 21.
good luck
childless in seattle
November 17, 2007 at 6:55 am
Yay! I hope you have lots of fertilized eggs that make it to blastocyst. Keep us posted!
November 17, 2007 at 2:46 pm
Katy,
The injections effect everyone differently. I had very few side effects from the drugs. Lupron made me a little emotional, but that is to be expected while going through this type of procedure, regardless of medications. The FSH and hMG shots were not painful at all for me, they just stung a little bit when injecting. As long as you put the needle in quick and inject slowly, it shouldn’t be too bad – but understand that everyone’s experience is different. I did get bloated a little bit, but not nearly as bad as some of the stories I’ve read online. I just felt a little pressure in my lower abdomen. As far as the intramuscular injections, such as hCG and Progesterone in Oil, they are not bad at all! I expected much worse than they are. My husband gives them to me, and it really doesn’t hurt at all. You might be sore the next day, but nothing you can’t handle.
The retrieval is very simple. The anesthesia they give is very light, it’s sedation, not general. Within a few minutes, you’ll just fall asleep. Afterwards, you may feel just a little twinge like I did, or you may have it worse, but it’s pain you should be able to deal with. They’ll give you pain medication to take that night – percocet works very well. The anesthesia may make you feel nauseous and possibly make you throw up, but I only experienced a little nausea on the drive home, and that went away as soon as I had something to eat when I got home. I would not suggest going back to work that day. You should give your body time to rest and heal from the surgery. I’m sure I could have gone, since my job just involves sitting in front of a computer, but it would not have been pleasant. You’ll probably sleep the rest of the day due to the anesthesia. I slept for about 5 hours once I got home, which helped me feel much better. I took percocet later, and was able to sleep again through the night. The pain in my abdomen is really not much worse than menstrual cramps – in fact it is much more bearable!
Really, don’t let yourself get too scared. I had a very good experience, and while I’m not promising the same for yours, there’s really nothing to worry about. I was a little nervous about the retrieval, but it ended up being just fine. And there were two other girls that had their retrieval after me, and when I saw them, they seemed just fine as well.
If you need any more information, please feel free to ask. Part of the reason I started this blog was to help others understand the process. I wish you luck with your IVF cycle.
January 29, 2008 at 1:58 pm
I had a lot of pain for about a day, throbbing deep inside and I couldnt stand up straight. I wonder if the pain has to do with the number of eggs retrieved?? I had 15 retrieved and 10 fertilized.
February 9, 2008 at 6:30 am
Tara,
I just had 30 eggs retreived 3 days ago and still cannot stand-up straight for long. I also feel really bloated, like my stomach is distended. I feel lots of pressure. My Dr. said I would have more pain due to the number of eggs harvested.
February 25, 2008 at 4:55 am
Ladies
I was relieved to get your posts, as I was convinced that something went severely wrong after my retrieval. I had 18 eggs removed. I came home and went straight to bed, and felt severely nauseous. I ate a small sandwich which didn’t help, and at 10 when it was time to take my progesterone I had vomiting and diarrhea. I proceeded to dry heave half the night. It was a nightmare. 3 days later and I can just barely up straight and my stomach is as bloated as if I’d hooked myself up to a bicycle pump. I wish you all the best.
February 25, 2008 at 5:29 am
Also Lori, how long did it take for you to feel back to normal?
April 8, 2008 at 8:08 pm
I had a egg retrievel on Sunday the 6th, 29 eggs, and still today feel cramping and have a brown/latex/paper like discharge? could this be a sac from an egg?
they said normal activity within the next day, but this is day two and still have abdominal pain/cramping, and some shortness of breath.
could it be from the number of eggs?
Im a donor so jus concered….
input anyone?????????
June 7, 2008 at 2:14 am
I did a cycle in December and I got severe OHSS! I felt like I was months pregnant and could not walk straight for two weeks…it was horrible! I told myself I would never do this again…but then another couple literally begged me to donate for them. The donor agency and the fertility center both told me that if I donated again there would be a decreased chance of getting OHSS since they would have my previous medical records and would decrease my dose. I signed the contract and started my meds…and they did not lower my dose…in fact, I think I my have taken even more! They would not lower the dose for some reason, and they kept saying I would be fine. I had my egg retreival a few days ago and it is the exact same thing! I am so mad…they don’t listed to egg donors cause they are just interested in the number of eggs, and could care less about our health once they get the eggs. I will NEVER do this again!
July 29, 2008 at 7:05 pm
I just donated eggs on Sunday (two days ago), and everything went fine. They took out 14 eggs. I still am very bloated but stopped having period cramping and pain in my ovaries later that night. I am sitting at work and have to unbutton my pants because I am so bloated. I am also pretty constipated, which the doctor says is a side effect. I do sort of feel like the doctor doesn’t really care about me now that they have my eggs. The doctor was very good during the initial treatment, and called me back immediately when I had questions. Overall the experience was very good, and I am glad that I didn’t have any OHSS. I hope others have a pleasant experience as well!
September 2, 2008 at 3:28 am
I just finished donating eggs. I too feel that the dr.s tend to overstimulate patients without much regards to their health. They want to make sure that they get the most eggs. At my retrieval they got 30 eggs, which is a lot. I was in SEVERE pain, I was even crying. They prescribed me pain medication, but they would not have to worry about the OHSS If they would focus on PREVENTING it in people who are likely to overstimulate..which are young women who take to the hormones quickly and develop a lot of follicles. Many people don’t realize that the cycle should actually be cancelled if the follicles are developing too much because it is dangerous to continue with the HcG. My advice is to make friends with your Dr.s nurses. They can be so helpful. I called mine at 3 am when I was having terrible pain and she scheduled me to come in for an ultrasound and blood work to make sure I am ok. You have a right to see that you are properly cared for. Do your research and speak up. When they tell you something is normal, you can say well maybe it could be this… I go in for the ultrasound tomorrow hpefully everything is ok.
June 4, 2009 at 12:55 am
I had the surgery a week ago and I had never had surgery before. It was much easier than I had orginally thought! Good Luck!
June 5, 2009 at 12:29 pm
Had retrieval two days ago, still very bloated. Got 52 (!) eggs, with 28 fertilized – we are so lucky. Any advice on getting rid of this bloat? Thanks!
June 25, 2009 at 12:35 am
I’m trying to find relief. Had my egg retrieval on Sunday (4 days ago) and still feel extremely bloated and nauseous. Don’t know how to feel better. They are freezing my eggs to do retrieval next cycle due to the pain I’m in. This is the first time through this so I’m at a loss. Any advice would be great.
September 19, 2009 at 9:10 am
i have had 9 egg retrievals and t seems that the more eggs they retrieve the more bloating there is after the retrieval. every doctor and nurse has suggested to drink gatorade not water and eat foods high in protein and salt. First time i have ever been instructed to eat a salty steak by a doctor. it actually helps just don’t eat too much at a time or you will feel worse –something about eating salty food helps your body absorb the bloat. believe me after 9 egg retrieval i am a pro at this, and it does work. good luck to all.
September 28, 2009 at 8:53 pm
I am going in for surgery tomorrow and reading this makes me so nervous. I have had the surgery before, they removed 14 eggs in April, but this time I have 35 and I am worried it will hurt terribly! The surgery in April was not that bad. Should I be more concernced about this surgery? Thanks
October 13, 2009 at 7:22 am
I just had a retreival on Thursday October 8th, today is Tuesday, October 13th, and I am still super bloated and constipated. This was my second round of donation, the first time around was so great. I had a doctor that monitered me every other day to make sure I didnt produce too many follicles and eggs…we ended up with 25 viable eggs anyway (my fault, on the last day I injected what I had been, didnt get the message in time to lower the dosage…)
And I almost Hyperstimulated. but it still only took me a few days max to recover, and it was easy.
You would think this time around, the doctor would read my chart and make sure to keep an eye on me since i have such a high resting follicle count…no such thing. I had 50 follicles!! they retreived 35 eggs, and my tummy is super distended, I look pregnant. I have to take a laxative every night, can still barely stand up straight for long periods of time…it pisses me off the unnecessary number of eggs, I mean what is this couple going to do with 35 eggs?!?!
So they say the doctor has good numbers…well NO WONDER!!!
A piece od advice, make sure your doctor moniters you EVERY OTHER DAY!!! and keep on them to not make you create sooo many eggs at once, what a toll this has played on my body, and my second time around… I wont be donating again because of this experience, thats for sure!